{"id":1106,"date":"2021-04-12T14:25:22","date_gmt":"2021-04-12T12:25:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/david-sleeve.fr\/?p=1106"},"modified":"2021-04-12T17:17:09","modified_gmt":"2021-04-12T15:17:09","slug":"je-suis-opere-le-dire-ou-ne-pas-le-dire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/david-sleeve.fr\/?p=1106","title":{"rendered":"Je suis op\u00e9r\u00e9.. le dire ou ne pas le dire ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>C&#8217;est une question que je me suis pos\u00e9 apr\u00e8s mon op\u00e9ration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je me suis beaucoup document\u00e9 avant de prendre ma d\u00e9cision, j&#8217;ai lu des blogs, j&#8217;ai regard\u00e9 des chaines youtube, et tout cela m&#8217;a permis de mieux me pr\u00e9parer. 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Et si les gens voient que vous avez beaucoup maigri, ils peuvent penser que vous \u00eates malade, et si vous leur avouez que vous avez \u00e9t\u00e9 op\u00e9r\u00e9, alors c&#8217;est souvent un petit sourire, un peu du style&#8230; ah&#8230;ok&#8230;, mais qui laisse clairement sous-entendre que vous auriez trich\u00e9&#8230; choisi la facilit\u00e9&#8230;.  comme si on vous op\u00e8re et paf c&#8217;est magique, tu perds du poids&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C&#8217;est tellement faux&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Donc plut\u00f4t que d&#8217;essayer d&#8217;expliquer \u00e0 chacun ma d\u00e9marche, j&#8217;ai opt\u00e9 pour le t\u00e9moignage publique, les personnes le lisent ou pas, mais la question autour de mon poids et\/ou de mon apparence n&#8217;a plus besoin de justification. Ceux qui comprennent tant mieux. l&#8217;avis des autres me laisse indiff\u00e9rent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mon choix est totalement personnel, et cette approche me correspond bien, mais bien entendu, pour d&#8217;autres personnes, une autre attitude peut s&#8217;imposer : <br><strong>le dire, ne pas le dire, peu importe, cela doit r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 la situation familiale et professionnel de tout \u00e0 chacun.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C&#8217;est une question que je me suis pos\u00e9 apr\u00e8s mon op\u00e9ration. Je me suis beaucoup document\u00e9 avant de prendre ma d\u00e9cision, j&#8217;ai lu des blogs, j&#8217;ai regard\u00e9 des chaines youtube, et tout cela m&#8217;a permis de mieux me pr\u00e9parer. T\u00e9moigner \u00e0 mon tour me semblait donc assez naturel. 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